Thursday, December 24, 2009

Merry Christmas

Christmas waves a magic wand over this world, and behold, everything is softer and more beautiful.

-- Norman Vincent Peale

Blessed is the season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of love.

-- Hamilton Wright Mabi

Let us remember that the Christmas heart is a giving heart, a wide open heart that thinks of others first. The birth of the baby Jesus stands as the most significant event in all history, because it has meant the pouring into a sick world of the healing medicine of love which has transformed all manner of hearts for almost two thousand years... Underneath all the bulging bundles is this beating Christmas heart.

-- George Matthew Adams

Time was with most of us, when Christmas Day, encircling all our limited world like a magic ring, left nothing out for us to miss or seek; bound together all our home enjoyments, affections, and hopes; grouped everything and everyone round the Christmas fire, and make the little picture shining in our bright young eyes, complete.
-- Charles Dickens

You tear apart the baby's rattle and see what makes the noise inside, but there is a veil covering the unseen world which not the strongest man, nor even the united strength of all the strongest men that ever lived, could tear apart. Only faith, fancy, poetry, love, romance, can push aside that curtain and view and picture the supernal beauty and glory beyond. Is it all real? Ah, Virginia, in all this world there is nothing else real and abiding.

-- Francis Pharcellus Church

Happy Holidays--no offense meant, none taken

So, I felt the need to express my opinion. I used to be REALLY opinionated and would be happy to tell you my opinion on just about anything. But, I finally realized most of the stuff I had opinions on were none of my business and just riled other people up. I prefer peace. Most of the time.

So, I used to get really upset about the Merry Christmas thing. But really, who does it hurt, if I am getting all excited about people not wishing me Merry Christmas? There are multiple holidays from Thanksgiving to New Year, so isn't it appropriate for someone to wish me a Happy Holidays? Maybe they are just covering all their bases, or holidays. As my oldest son used to say all the time, "I'm just sayin'." 

And even if someone does wish me Happy Holidays, I can still reply "and a Merry Christmas to you too." One of my friends today on Facebook wrote "Merry Christmas everyone and Happy Holidays to everyone else who might not want a Merry Christmas." Well, I think that is a pretty good attitude. If someone doesn't want to have a Merry Christmas or wish you one, why should we get all upset about it? No reason. 

We Merry Christmas wishers all know THE REASON for the season, so really, sticks and stones, don't you think? A Happy Holidays is really not going to break our bones will it? I think if we take all the pent up emotion we have about getting grinchy about other people's season's greetings, and pray for them, or put a few coins in the Salvation Army bucket instead of trying to slide by while their backs are turned, we could really do a lot more. (Oh yeah, The SA santas aren't at very many locations anymore, oops).

And insisting that everyone say Merry Christmas, really makes me want to say Happy Holidays all the more. I can get a little stubborn sometimes. :-) Thus the title of this note. Is anyone still with me? Haha. One more thought. It's like someone saying hello to you (a happy greeting) and insisting they say I love you instead. "Happy Holidays." It's a really nice, happy greeting. And yet, we wanted to throw it back in the givers face by insisting they say Merry Christmas. I'm just sayin"......LOL.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Healthy minds, healthy bodies

Choosing what is going on in our heads is all well and good. Learning to control our thoughts is one of the most important things we can do to experience abundance. But putting the right things in our bodies, is also a fabulous way to experience abundance. Here are a couple of good links to consider. The first is foods that contain the most antioxidants. Antioxidants are powerful components of food that help repair damage done to our bodies by free radicals. See the list here:

http://drbenkim.com/articles-antioxidants.html

I believe changing our bad food habits will also bring us more abundant health. I have been on several fasts over the years, and I think I'll start a new one with the new year. I like this one:

http://drbenkim.com/full-body-cleanse-diet.htm

Instead of making empty promises about the weight you might want to lose in the new year, why not make some healthy choices to raise your levels of health and happiness?

Friday, December 11, 2009

Faith can move mountains

Approximately 10 years ago, on a freezing July night, the cold, hard, truth hit me like a freight train.

NO ONE WAS COMING TO MY RESCUE.

On our bedroom floor, my wife was giving birth to our son, he’d come so quickly that we had just called the hospital to tell them we were on our way. But we never made it out of the house.

The complication was he was breech, and when he had come out to his shoulders, the contractions stopped and he stopped coming. My wife and I stayed calm, but for all my trying I just could not get his head out.

While this was happening my sister had called an ambulance, but we were stuck in this position for about 15 minutes before they arrived and were able to fully deliver him.

What I didn’t realise was that the umbilical cord was obstructed and our baby was suffering asphyxiation. When he was finally born our boy was blue, and his heart rate was 40 beats per minute when it should have been 140 beats per minute.

As the paramedics worked on our son, pumping oxygen into his lungs, with a hand pump, I went outside to talk to God.

I'd been studying faith at a local church for a while, and had achieved some small successes. One of the scriptures that has always impressed on me the most was Mark 11:24 “Whosoever shall say unto this mountain, be though removed and be though cast into the sea, and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he says shall come to pass. He shall have whatsoever he says.”

This scripture told me I had to take responsibility in the situation, and not wait for something to happen, but make something happen.

I felt strength flow through me as I reminded God what this scripture said. I told God that I was not going to ask for anything but that I was going to take control of the situation.

I had a strong belief that parents are supposed to protect their children, not just naturally but spiritually as well.

I also could not accept the idea that a child would be born just to die ten minutes later.

After my conversation with God I felt fearless and determined. When I went back into the house the main paramedic pulled me aside and asked me if he could have a word with me. With a grim look on his face and a professional tone in his voice he told me, “I don’t think the little blokes gonna make it.”

This was a defining moment, I refused to become afraid and accept his opinion!

Looking directly into his eyes I replied “No he is going to be fine.” I know I must have had a look that said I meant business, because the paramedic backed off immediately with a quick reply “Yer Okay”.

It’s amazing how quickly people will change their mind and come into agreement with you when you are clear and absolute about something.

Upon entering the hospital I repeated with conviction “No he’s going to make it, He’s gonna be just fine,” to any one that spoke to me.

As I stood back and watched Doctors and Nurses buzzing around my son in a hive of activity, things became surreal.

A smiling woman in a white coat approached, “You know when they called in, I thought they’d be bringing in a dead baby, but it’s a miracle, they’ve done a great job, he’s looking good.”

Of course our baby did survive.

But the next day he was placed in intensive care. At a meeting with the head of intensive care, the Doctor explained to us that our baby was “fitting” and this was most likely because he would have suffered brain damage and organ damage due to the lack of oxygen he received during birth. At this point, once again I reassured the Doctor, “No, don’t worry, he’s going to be just fine.” Because of what we had just been through, I thought there’s no way I’m going to start backing off now.

About this time we were interviewed by the hospital psychologist, to see how we were handling the fact our baby would be severely handicapped. After the meeting my wife sneaked a peek at the psychologist’s clipboard and notes. Amoung other things, my wife noticed the statement “This couple is not prepared for failure.” It was not written as a positive statement, but I found it incredibly empowering.

The ward is divided into ten sections. Section one for the sickest babies and our son was in this section. Some babies are in section one for months and some never get well. However, within two days our son was in section three and in three days he was in section nine. Within another three days we were taking him home in absolutely perfect condition.

Since that time I have pushed myself to learn as much as possible about this incredible power that saved my son’s life.

What I have learnt I have applied to many different areas of my life, I have used this power to transform my near bankrupt, failing business into a thriving prosperous company that has allowed me an income that has totally changed my lifestyle.

I have seen this power make cancer and arthritis completely disappear from people’s bodies.

I have seen it transform children with learning difficulties and sleeping problems into peaceful intelligent, happy kids.

I have seen it do many incredible, wonderful things in relationships, and every area of life. I believe this power controls the world, and I believe it exists for the benefit of mankind.

I truly believe it’s the answer to every obstacle we face.

“And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.” John 8:32

Shayne Hammond

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Wanna be 25% happier?

Get your gratitude on! See this cool new site, where you can record what you are grateful for. www.gratitudelog.com Then go here and listen to why.

http://tv.philosophersnotes.com/28/the-how-of-happiness-episode-2